What's acceptable for getting to know/courting a girl at 20 years old?

Truthfully, I didn't read all of this but I did finish the majority. I have a lot of the same problems and usually come off as weird when I first meet someone because I have problems expressing myself when I have so many complex thoughts running through my head. You can't judge the way to act with a girl because girl's are really hard to read and you have to know what they actually think. I think that you should write things down instead, like leaving little notes around that are artistic and articulate because that really gets us girls. We like to know that we can be muses and influence the artist in someone. Hopefully you've got good writing skills and can organize your thoughts in a way that will really pull at the heart-strings and make her think about you no matter how hard she tries to concentrate on something else.